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当你大概想表达的意思：
不要拿自己跟别人比较。我们很容易看着别人，觉得他们什么都顺利，很成功。
但其实我们永远无法真正了解别人的生活。每个人都有自己的难处。
一味地拿自己和别人比较容易产生自我怀疑。
不会组织语言的人说的：
Don't compare yourself to others. We can easily think that other people are successful and do everything well. But we can't really know others' lives. Everyone has his or her unhappy things. Always comparing yourself to others can make you doubt yourself.
点评：整体表达确少一些“有含义的”的词汇。
比如，演讲者在表达人们有自己的难处的时候，就用了struggle and challenge
表达我们容易怀疑自己，就用了inadequacy and self-doubt.
TED中超强组织语言
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Don't compare yourself to others. It’s so easy to look at other people and think, “Oh, they have it all together. They’re so successful. Why can’t I be like them?”
不要拿自己和别人比较。我们很容易看着别人然后想 “哦，他们什么都顺利。他们如此成功。为什么我不能像他们一样？”。
“have it all together” 是一个英语习语，常见的意思是 （在生活、工作等方面）一切顺利、井然有序、处理得很好、井井有条。
But the truth is, we never really know what’s going on in someone else’s life. Everyone has their own struggles, their own challenges. And constantly comparing ourselves to others only leads to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.
但事实是，我们永远无法真正了解别人的生活中发生了什么。每个人都有自己的挣扎和挑战。一味地拿自己和别人比较只会导致觉得自己不够好和自我怀疑。
inadequacy /ɪnˈædɪkwəsi/ 名词，不足；不充分；不胜任；缺点；弱点。
self - doubt /ˌself ˈdaʊt/，是一个合成词，名词，自我怀疑；缺乏自信
So I focus on my own journey, my own growth, and I celebrate my own successes, no matter how small they may be.
所以我专注于自己的旅程、自己的成长，庆祝自己的成功，无论它们多么微不足道。
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