💬 先尝试自己说
1. 如果别人没问我建议，我就不会主动给
2. 你不总是想要什么就能得到什么
3. 一段糟糕的关系会让你丢失很多快乐
4. 你会不可避免地说错话、做错事、信错人、让自己陷入糟糕的情况
5. 你很难避免因为把事情搞砸而带来的尴尬
大致想表达的意思不会组织语言的人说的霉霉在纽约大学演讲时说的（先遮住自行思考）
如果别人没问我建议，我就不会主动给
If people don't ask me for advice, I won't give them.
I try not to give anyone unsolicited advice unless they ask for it.
除非别人问起，我一般不会主动给任何人提供建议。
unsolicited [ˌʌnsəˈlɪsɪtɪd] 主动提供的
你不总是想要什么就能得到什么
You don't always get all you want.
You don't always get all the things in the bag that you selected from the menu in the delivery surface.
字面意思是你不可能总是把你从送货界面菜单中选择的所有东西都装进袋子里，意译就是你并不能得到所有你想要的东西
一段糟糕的关系会让你丢失很多快乐
You may lose happiness when in a bad relationship.
One toxic relationship can outweigh so many wonderful, simple joys.
一段糟糕的关系会挤走很多简单和美妙的快乐。
你会不可避免地说错话、做错事、信错人、让自己陷入糟糕的情况
You can’t avoid saying the wrong things, do the wrong things, trust the wrong people, and being in a bad situation.
You will inevitably misspeak, trust the wrong people, hurt the people who didn’t deserve it, overthink, not think at all, self sabotage, deny any wrongdoing, not take the steps to make it right, hit rock bottom.
你会不可避免地说错话、错信他人、伤害不应该伤害的人、思虑过多、掉以轻心、自暴自弃、否认过错、不思悔改、跌入谷底
inevitably [ɪnˈevɪtəbli] adv. 不可避免地
你很难避免因为把事情搞砸而带来的尴尬
You can't avoid doing things wrong and being embarrassed.
Being embarrassed when you mess up is part of the human experience.
在把事情搞砸之后感到尴尬，这是人生中必然会有的经历。
词汇/拓展
outweigh 英/ˌaʊtˈweɪ/ 美/ˌaʊtˈweɪ/ vt.胜过；大于；超过；重于 eg. Long-term returns often outweigh short-term risks. 长期收益通常会超过短期风险。 eg. The nutritional value outweighs the taste of the food. 营养的重要性比食物的味道更重要。
misspeak 说错话 mis是否定前缀 基本上是加在动词前面构成否定，比如misunderstand(理解错误，误会),misread (读错，误解)，mislead(带错路，误导) ，miscalculate(算错，错误地估计)，mispronounce (发错音)