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Next up, confidence comes from ________________________ not our___________. Cheryl was a giant buzzkill. When she noticed me ____________ in the mirror as a kid, she decided to___________ that in the bud immediately by covering up all the mirrors in the house. A loving ____________________ was: You have wonderful ____________. Not, You're beautiful. Oh, and character was built by____________. When I wasn't mucking out the goat barn, I was shearing sheep, ____________________, scrubbing toilets, volunteering, _________________Cheryl believed that hard work, particularly ____________________ others, confidence. A ________________ we need more and more of when exposing ourselves to any kind of public attention. But perhaps the most important lesson was: a private life makes a public life worth living. Cheryl saw that while fame came with many blessings, there was an impact and a potential cost to living your life in public. And so more than anything, she, like my grandparents before her, ____________ the value of . Because_______________ a private life is_______________. It's __________. Its value is ____________ in what you don't share. What you_______________. And for whom. The world is now one big small town. But within that virtual town square, there are ________________ relationships, degrees of intimacy, and everyone ____________ a different amount of you, a different ____________.
Next up, confidence comes from character, not our looks. Cheryl was a giant buzzkill. When she noticed me glancing in the mirror as a kid, she decided to nip that in the bud immediately by covering up all the mirrors in the house. A loving compliment was: You have wonderful character. Not, You're beautiful.
其次，自信源自品质，而不是长相。谢莉尔随时会泼人冷水。小时候时，她注意到我瞥了一眼镜子，于是她决定遮住家里的所有镜子，立即扼杀我的臭美之心。动人的赞美是：“你品质优秀”。而不是“你很美”。
a giant buzzkill 很会泼人冷水的人 -->giant [ˈdʒaɪənt] n.高大健壮的人；adj. 巨大的-->buzzkill n. 令人沮丧的人或者事 glance [ɡlæns] v. 一瞥，擦过 n. 一瞥，很快的一看 nip that in the bud 防患于未然 扼杀在摇篮 --> nip [nɪp] v. 啃咬，掐；n. 轻咬 -->bud [bʌd] n. 伙计，老兄；芽体 v. 发芽，长出花蕾 compliment [ˈkɑːmplɪment] n.恭维;称赞;赞扬; vt. 赞美;称赞;钦佩
Oh, and character was built by doing chores. When I wasn't mucking out the goat barn, I was shearing sheep, changing tires, scrubbing toilets, volunteering, shoveling snow. Cheryl believed that hard work, particularly in service of others, breeds confidence.
品质源自于做家务。我不是在给羊圈除粪，就是在剪羊毛、换轮胎、刷马桶、做志愿者、铲雪。谢莉尔认为，辛苦劳动，特别是服务他人，会培养自信。
doing chore 做家务 tire [ˈtaɪər] n.轮胎;头饰 v.(使)疲劳，疲倦，困倦 scrub [skrʌb] v.刷洗;擦洗;取消(原有安排) n.擦洗; shovel [ˈʃʌvl] n.铲子;铲;铁铲;vt.铲;铲起 breed [briːd] v. 交配繁殖；饲养，培育；养育，培养；引起，酿成；n. 人的）类型
A trait we need more and more of when exposing ourselves to any kind of public attention. But perhaps the most important lesson was: a private life makes a public life worth living. Cheryl saw that while fame came with many blessings, there was an impact and a potential cost to living your life in public.
当我们的私生活越来越受到公众关注时，我们会需要这种特质。但是，可能最重要的教训是：私生活让抛头露面更有价值。谢莉尔发现，虽然成名会带来许多好处，但受到公众关注也会造成影响，并可能需要付出的代价。
trait [treɪt] n. （人的个性的）特征，品质，特点；遗传特征；一点，少许 potential [pəˈtenʃl] adj.潜在的;可能的 n.可能性;潜在性;潜力;潜质;电位
And so more than anything, she, like my grandparents before her, emphasized the value of privacy. Because cultivating a private life is precious. It's sacred. Its value is inherent in what you don't share. What you withhold. And for whom.
因此，她像我的祖父母一样，都十分注重保护隐私。因为培养私人生活是非常宝贵的，是神圣的。它的价值根植于你不会分享的事情，你保留的情感，以及你保护的对象。
emphasize [ˈemfəsaɪz] v.强调;重视;着重;使突出;使明显;重读，强调 cultivate [ˈkʌltɪveɪt] vt.培养;培育;种植;逐渐形成 sacred [ˈseɪkrɪd] adj.上帝的;神圣的;受崇敬的 注意区分于单词scared（害怕的） inherent [ɪnˈherəntˌɪnˈhɪrənt] adj. 内在的，固有的 withhold [wɪðˈhoʊld] v. 保留，隐瞒，扣留；克制
The world is now one big small town. But within that virtual town square, there are tiers of relationships, degrees of intimacy, and everyone deserves a different amount of you, a different side.
现在，世界就像一个巨大的小镇。但是，在虚拟的镇广场内，会有一层层的关系，各种亲密程度，你与大家的亲密程度不同，关系不同。
virtual [ˈvɜːrtʃuəl] adj. 几乎……的，实质上的；虚拟的 tiers [tirz] n.级;阶;层;阶层;等级 intimacy [ˈɪntɪməsi] n.亲密;密切;关系密切; degrees of intimacy 亲密的程度