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当你大概想表达的观点：【注意不是翻译，是基于这个话题展开口语练习，尽可能多说】
我觉得我们不应该表扬孩子的智力或天赋。我们应该表扬孩子的付出、努力，采取的行动、取得的进步。这种对过程的表扬能够培养出坚韧且有韧性的孩子。
不会组织语言的人说的：
I don't think we should praise kids because they are smart.
（这里我就不再假设你说的是I think we should not xx了，前面说过很多很多次啦，否定要前移到自己后面）
Instead, we should give them praise because they study hard or because they tried to solve problem. We also should give them praise if they make grogress.
This way of praise can help kids become braver and stronger.
TED中超强组织语言
来源TED The power of believing that you can improve.
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We should praise children wisely.
我们应该明智地表扬孩子。
Instead of praising their intelligence or talent, which has proven to be ineffective, we should stop doing that.
不要去表扬他们的智力或天赋，事实证明这种表扬方式是无效的，我们应该停止这么做。
Instead, we should praise the process in which kids are involved, such as their effort, strategies, focus, perseverance, and improvement. This kind of praise for the process can cultivate children who are tough and resilient.
相反，我们应该表扬孩子们所参与的过程，比如他们付出的努力、采用的策略、专注度、毅力以及取得的进步。这种对过程的表扬能够培养出坚韧且有韧性的孩子。
词汇
instead of /ɪnˈsted ɒv/，短语，代替；而不是
intelligence /ɪnˈtelɪdʒəns/，n. 智力；才智；智能
ineffective /ˌɪnɪˈfektɪv/，adj. 无效的；不起作用的
perseverance /ˌpɜːsɪˈvɪərəns/，n. 毅力；韧性；不屈不挠的精神
cultivate /ˈkʌltɪveɪt/，v. 培养；培育；耕作
resilient /rɪˈzɪliənt/，adj. 有韧性的；能复原的；适应力强的
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